Bo Blaze - Alternative Life Coach

Are you looking for help living an ENM/Polyamorus lifestyle? Maybe you're interested in BDSM and other Consensual Power Dynamics? I've lived both of these lifestyles for over 25 years and that experience is why I'm SURE I can help you "play better in your alternative life!" Contact me right now for a FREE CONSULTATION by Phone or Skype!

I have helped thousands of people live a more authentic life for over 20 Years! I use a pragmatic, results-oriented method that helps you identify & achieve your goals. I will challenge and support you while holding you accountable for the decisions you make. So what are you waiting for? When You Stop Growing, You Start Dying!
Coaching & Consulting via phone, Skype or in person.

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ENM Couples Coaching at Exxxotica 2024

I'd like to welcome my IRL partners : Anna Blaze & Dee Blaze to a new venture that is specifically going to help couples who are in or want to be in polyamorous/Ethically non-monogamous relationships We wanted to let you know that we will be be teaching the following 2 classes at... Read More »
What is ENM, CNM or Polyamory

Polyamory or Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) or Consensual Non Monogamy (CNM) is the practice of having romantic or sexual relationships with multiple partners at the same time, with the knowledge and consent of all involved. It is a relationship style that can offer a number of benefits but it is... Read More »
Bo will be teaching 3 classes & signing books at EXXXOTICA Oct 21-23 2022

EXXXOTICA is The Largest Adult Event in the USA Dedicated to Love & Sex. Taking place over three days, this event was created for adults who are looking for something Sexy, something Fun, and something Different. Bo will be teaching 3 classes again this year, heavily weighted in the... Read More »
Bo Talks BDSM & Polyamory on CAM4 Podcasts

Bo was a guest on his friend Paul Nelson's CAM4 podcast "How's it Hanging" several times this year. Episode #7: 50 Shades of Curious | Kink & Fetish 101 CAM4 Presents: How's It Hanging?Paul welcomes Bo Blaze, world-renowned kink & fetish expert and author of 50 Shades of... Read More »
Bo quoted in CNN article about new 50 Shades of Grey movie.

Bo was asked to participate in a great article written by psychotherapist and New York Times best-selling author Ian Kerner for CNN.com. It's called Is 'Fifty Shades' a boon or bust for couples exploring kink? Bo explains: I really love this article! Ian asked us all the same questions and so... Read More »
Bo’s Negotiation Form – BDSM checklist – Check in Form – Communicate with your partner about BDSM

COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION! It's the most important part of BDSM and vanilla relationships alike. The more you know about your partner, the safer and more exciting your playtime will be. Called by many names, a Negotiation form, BDSM Checklist, Check-in form is just a... Read More »
BDSM Communication – A free chapter from Bo’s book: 50 Shades of Curious – BDSM for beginners

This is a free chapter of my book “50 Shades of Curious – BDSM for Beginners”. Of all things I teach, I’m probably most passionate about communication. This chapter has some of the most important things I can share with you on both BDSM and vanilla relationships. To purchase the book via... Read More »
The Guardian interviews Bo and other educators for positive story on BDSM and Fifty Shades of Grey

The story is called: Fetish lovers begging for freedom: 'Fifty Shades of Grey is our Stonewall moment' and starts out with: "The success of Fifty Shades has opened a Pandora’s box of curiosity into edgier sexual practices, leading some in the kink community to argue that that it’s... Read More »
Free 30 minute video on BDSM Safety from Bo Blaze, PCC

As both an Alternative Life Coach and Novice Group Facilitator for the oldest & largest BDSM support & education group in the USA for the last 10 years, Bo Blaze PCC, has taught thousands of people how to safely, sanely and consensually incorporate BDSM & Kinky sex into their sex... Read More »
Free 45 Minute Seminar on BDSM & Kinky Sex

As both an Alternative Life Coach and Novice Group Facilitator for the oldest & largest BDSM support & education group in the USA for the last 10 years, Bo Blaze PCC, has taught thousands of people how to safely, sanely and consensually incorporate BDSM & Kinky sex into their sex lives.... Read More »
What they are saying about Bo Blaze

I wanted to get back to you and let you know your advice saved my life 3 years ago and I'm grateful. You are one of the kindest, smartest, nicest, most helpful, wisest people I know. I worry that I don't convey it well via text, but your advice really did save my life, helped me change, and meant... Read More »

Testimonials

"I wanted to get back to you and let you know your advice saved my life 3 years ago and I'm grateful. You are one of the kindest, smartest, nicest, most helpful, wisest people I know. I worry that I don't convey it well via text, but your advice really did save my life, helped me change, and meant the world to me. You have given me unbelievable help, and I wanted to take a moment to thank you. "

Jeff - Former Client

Bo Blaze is the "Alternative" life coach. Specializing in the Entertainment Industry, Alternative Relationships & Sexuality and anyone else who's life is just a little bit left of center. He has 20 years of experience in the music industry and has worked with a variety of entertainers and touring musicians from the "most high profile" to the "completely unknown". He has vast experience with alternative lifestyles & communities including, Polyamory, Leather, BDSM, Kinky, Queer, Fetish, Adult, Gay, Lesbian, Transgendered, Transsexual, Crossdressing, LGBT, Leather Family, adult entertainers, sex workers etc. Bo's own struggle and subsequent success fighting his food addiction makes him an excellent choice as a Bulimia and Food Addiction Coach.